...cyber love,Internet love,chat mate in love, what ever it is, it is still about finding love over some chat room you and suddenly fell in love with them. You might be wondering how this things differ from text mate love affair? i actually do know. Well i would lie to you if i say i have never experience any of this, well ofcourse yes i have experience text mates and chat mates thingy.
When i was in HS i did a little experiment in texting, i mean having text mates. Several time have i texted people inviting them to be my Friends most of them are girls and some are boys(not that i don't have friends way back in HS, just for fun though!). But what text mates and chat mates differ is that texting is only a national way of communicating while in chatting you can meet international people, people who lives abroad. And in texting you can meet each other right away(if your location is not that far from each other) and in chatting you cant easily meet because of the distance as i said your from different countries(unless you live in the same country) and the only way of communicating is through email and YM of course.
It is sad how other people use this kind of communication as to capture someones affection just to use them(to gain other countries citizenship, making them be their financial wall). Sometimes it is never love that they want to be with the people they met in the chat room.
When you meet other people from other country you tend to have knowledge of how their culture works there and how you could approach people there and what type of living do they have. But do you really want to know this information because your in love or because your just curious?
It is hard to find decent boys and girls in the internet, some wants sexual talks and others are just doing business. but when you find one(knowing that how it works in the internet) can you possibly put so much trust in that person that you have already fallen in love with them? (i mean completely) or do you still tend to know each other better before anything happens?
I met alot of guys already in the internet, and being involve in the internet i notice that some (im not saying all) boys there wants to be in bed with the girls already and if you don't have any sexual experience they teach you on line(trust me i know). What some people doesn't know is that this is already a kind of sexual abuse, they are giving knowledge that you tend not to know. I have been into one chat room lately and one of this guys that i have chatted with is an Indian who told me that he is masturbating (yes you heard me right masturbating) and you want to know why he is doing that because he saw my picture in face book and he told me he just got hot! (piece of advice don't give any personal info unless you know the person) me being a stupid girl felt not praise but offended because damn that pic in my face book account only shows my face and suddenly some guy wants to masturbate when they saw it!?(what the hell). That gave me the idea that no guys should be trusted when you meet them in the net!
I have been holding on that thought until i met this guy from the Internet chatting (i know it sounds crazy things like this coming from someone who literary doesn't trust guys!). He is so nice, caring , sweet and (i sure hope) knows how to commit!,loves me(hopefully), adorable,respectful(towards me atleast)... And he is also willing to learn the cultures and tradition of my country just so he would be knoweledgable. Everytime we talk it seems like both of us are wishing that we are together so that we can hold eachother and tell each other how much we love each other! cause everytime he talks to me he always remind me how much he adores me and loves me! And im sure hope he is really british not one of those Indian guys who only wants to have sexual intercourse with the girls they met!...Im sure eager to meet him when he visits me here and hopefully he would meet my family too!
I know i should be carefull in falling in love with the guy i have just met in the chat room, because from all the relationship that i have notice those who met their guys and girls in the internet brakes up easily. I mean yeah they get married leave to have a better life but not all ends up well. Some of them ends up in a tragedy where girls get killed.
...I sure hope that dosent happen to me and my boy....=]
...well thankz for reading hope you learn things!
...watch out for my new entry....
...XOXO pau....
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