Have you ever wonder how you could classify the type of affection you have for your partner and how about the type of affection he/she has for you? If it is really love or are you just fooling yourself about thinking that what your partner feels about you is true love. I know that love couldn’t be classified nor even can it even be defined. No philosophers can describe it without feeling it. But who says you cannot define the kind of affection you feel and what kind type of affection that your partner has for you. Let us define it or put it on three types or category; Love, Lust and Like.
LOVE
“It is immortal, cannot be defined, given not asked for, it’s a strong kind of affection, a passionate feeling”. These are some of the many definition given about love but what and which definition is true and can be really felt?
If you can find time to talk to your partner on the phone or on YM or any kind of communication you can find. If you can really give it without asking any in return. If you could respect each other with out having doubt about anything. If nothing matters in the world but her/him. Then its must be love (?). A put a question mark is put in a parenthesis because some people might define it differently.
If it is love that you are feeling then you must have felt the bond between the two of you that no matter how far away you are from each other you still feel connected no matter what. You are still eager to know how they feel. If you are still sensitive of the feelings your partner has. And every time you hear that he/she is not feeling good or if she is upset you want to know why. And you would want to hear their voice no matter what. You wouldn’t let the day pass without hearing it, because it keeps you calm and contended. If you feel like the two of you wouldn’t exist without each other.
If you feel this kind of affection it then it must be love. You see love is not about having the thought of how it would feel like if you’re with each other. The desire of having them in bed. The feeling that you could have a lot of gifts from him/her. It is shouldn’t be momentarily it should be immortal. It is not about the feeling that he/she see something different that is why they are eager to know you better by letting you know that they have fallen deeply in love with you. It is not about treating you like a business that you should be scheduled to have his/her affection. It is about learning your differences and setting them aside. Trusting and understanding each other. Paying respect to one another. Fulfilling each others needs. Filling up the holes in the heart of one another. It’s about sharing and giving without caring if you could have any in return. If you feel any of that then it might have been love!
LUST
“strong desire”, that is how you define lust. But in affection how does it count as one of the category? Could you really count it as affection? How can desire be a part of affection? These might be the questions you would like to ask your selves. But mind you this is a part of the category just because I felt like writing it but because it can be a real part of it and it is really a part of it.
Now you might ask what kind of desire could lead such affection? Must it be sex? Now this might be the question you would like to ask what kind of lust could drive into affection. And also mind you it’s not always about sex but it might be.Strong desires are not always about sex it is can also be about curiosity that could lead to like to lust. If you met a different person with a different perspective on things than people you know. This things that could interest you and the more you get to know that person the more you become curios or interested about her/him. This feeling could lead into a desire rather than love. These are two different thing because your desires can change and when it changes you would also change the affection you have for your partner when love can never change!About the sex thing being involve yes it can be just a desire you might just tell your partner that you love them just for the satisfaction that you have when you have sex with them or for the desire that you have for having your partner in bed. This such thing is only lust and never love. This such affection never last it shall fade in time.
LIKE
“to have desire”, how those like differ from lust? How can it be part of the types of affection? This might be the question you have in mind while reading this article, but yes like is different from lust and it is also a part of the type of affection we have.
Like is different from lust because in like desire is not that strong and lust it is more intense and strong as said in its definition. But what really makes it different is how they are applied and how they become affection.
LOVE
“It is immortal, cannot be defined, given not asked for, it’s a strong kind of affection, a passionate feeling”. These are some of the many definition given about love but what and which definition is true and can be really felt?
If you can find time to talk to your partner on the phone or on YM or any kind of communication you can find. If you can really give it without asking any in return. If you could respect each other with out having doubt about anything. If nothing matters in the world but her/him. Then its must be love (?). A put a question mark is put in a parenthesis because some people might define it differently.
If it is love that you are feeling then you must have felt the bond between the two of you that no matter how far away you are from each other you still feel connected no matter what. You are still eager to know how they feel. If you are still sensitive of the feelings your partner has. And every time you hear that he/she is not feeling good or if she is upset you want to know why. And you would want to hear their voice no matter what. You wouldn’t let the day pass without hearing it, because it keeps you calm and contended. If you feel like the two of you wouldn’t exist without each other.
If you feel this kind of affection it then it must be love. You see love is not about having the thought of how it would feel like if you’re with each other. The desire of having them in bed. The feeling that you could have a lot of gifts from him/her. It is shouldn’t be momentarily it should be immortal. It is not about the feeling that he/she see something different that is why they are eager to know you better by letting you know that they have fallen deeply in love with you. It is not about treating you like a business that you should be scheduled to have his/her affection. It is about learning your differences and setting them aside. Trusting and understanding each other. Paying respect to one another. Fulfilling each others needs. Filling up the holes in the heart of one another. It’s about sharing and giving without caring if you could have any in return. If you feel any of that then it might have been love!
LUST
“strong desire”, that is how you define lust. But in affection how does it count as one of the category? Could you really count it as affection? How can desire be a part of affection? These might be the questions you would like to ask your selves. But mind you this is a part of the category just because I felt like writing it but because it can be a real part of it and it is really a part of it.
Now you might ask what kind of desire could lead such affection? Must it be sex? Now this might be the question you would like to ask what kind of lust could drive into affection. And also mind you it’s not always about sex but it might be.Strong desires are not always about sex it is can also be about curiosity that could lead to like to lust. If you met a different person with a different perspective on things than people you know. This things that could interest you and the more you get to know that person the more you become curios or interested about her/him. This feeling could lead into a desire rather than love. These are two different thing because your desires can change and when it changes you would also change the affection you have for your partner when love can never change!About the sex thing being involve yes it can be just a desire you might just tell your partner that you love them just for the satisfaction that you have when you have sex with them or for the desire that you have for having your partner in bed. This such thing is only lust and never love. This such affection never last it shall fade in time.
LIKE
“to have desire”, how those like differ from lust? How can it be part of the types of affection? This might be the question you have in mind while reading this article, but yes like is different from lust and it is also a part of the type of affection we have.
Like is different from lust because in like desire is not that strong and lust it is more intense and strong as said in its definition. But what really makes it different is how they are applied and how they become affection.
If you don’t seem to care so much about you’re partner. If you are only fascinated about his abilities and capabilities. If you are only affected about his/her look. If looks are the only thing that matter to you. If you cant find time to spend with them to hear their voice or to see their face. If you are not to eager to talk to them. Then it must not be love nor lust.
You only desire them for your good. You You only think of spending a short time with them and nothing about them really matters. You only desire them not love them. Maybe because are jealous of them or you just want them for awhile because your curios to know them and curiosity is different from eagerness. If you never really love them but you making them feel that you are then you should stop doing what you do.
Act differently than you should. This kind of thing when felt by others and not you are hurtful to you especially if you are in love with them when they don’t feel the same for you.
Like can never last and if it did it would only take a short time to fade!
So what type or classification do you think your affection and your partner’s affection count? Do you the see the similarities in the types o feeling you have if you did can you classify the type of feeling/affection you have?
You be careful your partners or your affection might not be LOVE, it might only be LUST or worst just LIKE.
Act differently than you should. This kind of thing when felt by others and not you are hurtful to you especially if you are in love with them when they don’t feel the same for you.
Like can never last and if it did it would only take a short time to fade!
So what type or classification do you think your affection and your partner’s affection count? Do you the see the similarities in the types o feeling you have if you did can you classify the type of feeling/affection you have?
You be careful your partners or your affection might not be LOVE, it might only be LUST or worst just LIKE.
i know what kind of affection me and my boy has for each other
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